Big or small? For most, average is the best; always moderation in everything. It all comes to how you play your game, how good are you in giving and sharing and taking. Sure size matters some, some want some, that is why there are male enhancement for those who want more, and if it is safe according to your health and physician, nothing is wrong with wishing big, and going for it, for well, when your heart can take it 🙂